Sikumema ukuthi ubukele futhi ujabulele ngokugcwele amavidiyo ocansi I-Femdom , noma ukubusa kwabesifazane , kuwumkhuba wocansi lapho owesifazane enegama eliyinhloko futhi umlingani azithoba kuye ngokuzithandela. Ezithombeni ezingcolile ngalesi sihloko, ungabona kaningi ukuthi owesifazane ulawula kanjani ijubane, izikhundla kanye nayo yonke inkambo yocansi. Angakwazi ukunikeza imiyalo, anqume ukuthi indoda kufanele yenzeni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili bomlomo, ukushaya indlwabu noma imisebenzi ehlukahlukene evusa inkanuko. Kwesinye isikhathi kusetshenziswa izinsiza, njengebhande, isiswebhu noma ozankosi, kwesinye isikhathi imayelana nokubusa ngokwengqondo nokulawula ngamagama nokubukeka. Ingqikithi iwukuthi owesifazane uyakhonya, owesilisa uyazithoba futhi bobabili bayakujabulela ukushintshana ngezindima. Ngenxa yalokhu, i-femdom ine-spectrum ebanzi - kusukela ekuyengeni okumnene kuya emidlalweni eqinile ye-BDSM.
