Lawa mavidiyo ocansi azokuyenga wodwa. Ukudlala ngothando kuwubuciko bokuyenga obuqala ngokubuka okucashile, ukumamatheka, nokuthinta izinto zokudlala. Kulesi sigaba, uzothola izigcawu ezishisa kakhulu lapho ukungezwani kukhula kancane futhi amandla enkanuko akhuphuka njalo ngomzuzu. Buka njengoba ukubuka kuphenduka ukuthinta kokuklolodela, umoya ugcwele isifiso, futhi bobabili abalingani baziveza kancane kancane hhayi ngokomzimba kuphela, kodwa nasemphefumulweni. Ukudlala ngothando kumayelana nokudlala, okulindelekile, kanye nokujabulisa okungaziwa.
Amavidiyo ethu abonisa izinhlobo ezahlukene zokudlala ngothando - kusukela ekuthinteni abantu abangenacala kuye ekuqabuleni okuqinile kuye ekwenzeni uthando olunentshisekelo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukubukeka okungaqondakali ekhishini, ukuthinta okudlalayo kwe-ticklish ngase-pool noma izingxoxo ezibabayo ekamelweni, kuhlale kumayelana nokuxhumana kwesifiso kanye nephupho. Ukudlala ngothando kuyisiqalo esihle kunoma yisiphi isigcawu esivusa inkanuko, lapho umhlangano ojwayelekile uba uhambo olungasoze lwalibaleka noludla lubi olugcwele inkanuko.
Uma uthanda ukungezwani ngaphambi kocansi, ukusikisela okucashile nokucasulayo okudlalwayo, lesi sigaba senzelwe wena nje. Zitholele umlingo wokudlala ngothando futhi uzivumele uthathwe umkhathi ozokudonsela kuwo futhi uvuse umcabango wakho ube phezulu. Lawa mavidiyo azokuyisa phezulu...
