Ngisho ukusa kunentokozo yakho ikakhulukazi uma kuqala ngocansi olunothando. Jabulela ukwenziwa kothando kwasekuseni nokuthinta esikulungiselele kona kulawa mavidiyo. Kuthuleke, kusale imizimba eyobuthongo nalowo mzuzu lapho nigonene. Isikhumba sakhe sisafudumele ngenxa yamaphupho, isandla sakho sishibilika phezu kwaso njengosilika. Ukuqabula okunensayo, kuqale entanyeni, kuphenduke ukuthinta okulangazelelayo okwenza igazi limpompe. Ukuphefumula kuyahlangana, ukububula okuthambile kuvusa wonke amangqamuzana.
Akukho ukuxhamazela. Konke kuvunyelwe, akukho okunqatshelwe. Iminwe iphinda ithole amakhona ajwayelekile, ulimi lufuna indlela yalo ngokuzethemba nangelukuluku. Umzimba uvuka osukwini olusha hhayi ngekhofi, kodwa ngokuqhuma kwenjabulo evusa amadlingozi. Ukwenza uthando lwasekuseni kuthulile, kujulile, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kukhanya ngokusobala kangangokuthi uzokhumbula usuku lonke. Ngoba ekuseni yisikhathi lapho ukwenza uthando kunambitheka kahle kakhulu - ngobuqotho, ngesisa, nangodlame ngesikhathi esifanayo. Kufanele ukubone futhi nakanjani uzame.