Jabulela amavidiyo lapho uzothola khona ipipi namabele omuntu wesifazane endimeni enkulu. Sikulungiselele izigcawu lapho uzobona khona - ipipi phakathi kwamabele ingenye yezindlela eziyenga kakhulu zokuvusa inkanuko, ezithandwa ngamadoda nabesifazane abanamabele agcwele ngenjabulo. Le ndlela yokudlala ngokusondelana ibukeka kakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo inikeza injabulo enkulu. Uma owesifazane ebamba ipipi phakathi kwamabele akhe athambile, abushelelezi, noma amabele aqinile e-silicone, futhi eqala ukuwuhambisa phezulu naphansi, kwakhiwa isigqi esivusa inkanuko esilethela umlingani wakhe ejabule. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuhamba kancane, ukuhlikihla okucasulayo noma ukunyakaza okusheshayo nokuthakazelisayo, ucansi lwebele luyinto ehlala enkumbulweni.
Lo mkhuba uvame ukuhlotshaniswa namabele amakhulu, kodwa abesifazane abanamabele amancane kodwa aqinile bangakwazi ukwenza kanjalo, inqobo nje uma bekwazi ukusebenza ngemizimba yabo nokunyakaza kwabo. Ipipi phakathi kwamabele akukhona nje ukuthintana ngokomzimba - kuyinkundla yemidlalo yeshashalazi yesifiso, lapho ukuvusa inkanuko, ukuthintana kwamehlo kanye nokungezwani phakathi kwemizimba kudlala indima enkulu. Abesifazane abaningi bayawujabulela lo mkhuba ngoba ubanikeza umuzwa wokulawula, ukuyenga kanye nekhono lokuletha injabulo enkulu evusa inkanuko kumlingani wabo. Futhi amadoda? Bathanda ukutotoswa esikhaleni esiphakathi kwamabele amabili ashisayo, okubenza bajabule. Kungumbono omangalisayo!
